Why doesn't she return my calls?

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Dear Carolyn,

I’m a truck driver who recently asked out a nice gal who works in the main office the small trucking company I drive for. We had a good time and I would like to ask her out again. However, she has not returned any or my calls or text messages since the date.

Does this mean she’s not interested? I wish she would just say so.


Dear Kevin,

She did.

Sorry, I know that sounds mean but if she’s not returning your calls and is not dead or in a ditch somewhere, she’s not interested. I hate it when that happens and it happens all the time. All of our devices makes it both easier to connect and easier to disconnect.

There are other fish in the sea. Go fishing.

I’m just say’n,


PS Don’t call her anymore! More than three unreturned calls = stalking.