Dear Carolyn,
I’m dating a man that was married to a terrible woman. She ran around on him and let him down in so many ways. He says he’s learned a lot about life and love from all the mistakes they made. We are really good together and thinking about marriage. However, I worry that he’ll think about her even though he says he won’t. I’m not a jealous person and I value what we have. But I always thought I’d be a first wife.
What do you think?
Sue
Dear Sue,
Remember, it’s the second mouse that gets the cheese!
I’m just say’n,
Carolyn